Violence in the closest relationships

There are times closest relationships have farthest minds. They might have came together by some social process which both of them have not much to act. A husband and wife, a father and child, mother in law and daughter in law any of this can be taken as an example. This list can get and go complex with more players getting in the interactions. I stop with philosophizing scenario where there is only two players.

A lot of people respected by most in their working place and considered as good natured by most people, might be ill rejected of those claims by their own closest people in home. It turns to be because the attitude of those people are different in friends and family circle. People often turn violent domestically in their behaviour, they end up with quarrels with their closest family members. But they never put a fight with his/her manager or peer, not with a friend. Their might be various reasons one among them is the attitude. The attitude which denies respect and freedom to their closest minds...The other view, is those people might be powerless in their surroundings and once they get a chance they dominate. In the reverse case, people who are violent in the friends and business environment is sure to be violent in their home too...which is what normal for them. And at last a word, people who experience violence and domination on home has always have the freedom to move out farthest from the person, and at the same time they have the complete chance to make that dominator to realise and change the behaviour of what he/she is... And life is after all what choices we made whether you are the oppressor or oppressed.....